It's funny how people nowadays often judge people they barely know. They act like they know every single thing about them, like they know them in and out. Like come on, even their close friends or their family didn't really know them, and them, just some stranger, how did they know them? They judge them like they are a human that didn't have heart or feeling that can hurts. They're just some heartless human being that didn't really care about what others feeling. They just care about what they saw, what they heard. They make fun of people because of their flaws. Everybody have flaws because no one perfect, so does the haters. So why wasting your time judging other people like you are perfect when actually you're not and no one does?
Suicide is not a joke. Self harm is not a joke. Anorexia is not a joke. Bulimia is not a joke. So why are you laughing?
Having a beautiful face doesn't mean you have a beautiful heart. Beautiful comes from inside. Don't say people ugly because every girl is beautiful in their own way. Before you say someone is ugly, take a look at a mirror see how you looks like. If you're pretty because of bunch of make up on your face or surgery then you should've not tell other girl is ugly. At least they're natural not pretty with a bunch of make up on their face. Why have a pretty face but didn't have a pretty heart? Beauty of heart is more important then beauty of face.
Having a slim body doesn't mean you're beautiful or perfect. Having a fat body doesn't mean you're ugly or not perfect. Body didn't define your perfectness because nobody's perfect.
Wearing bikini doesn't mean a slut. Wearing long sleeves and sweatpants doesn't mean nerdy. Your clothes doesn't define who you are.
Wanted by a lot of boys doesn't really mean you're really wanted because some thing cheap is more wanted. Not wanted by a lot of boys doesn't really mean you're not wanted because maybe its just all of the boys that stupid enough to choose some slutty girl than you. You're too good for them.
Walking like a model doesn't mean you're arrogant. Its maybe just how you walk. Everybody has a different way. Or maybe because you're a model so when you're around you walk like a model because you used to it. Or maybe when you're a little you used to do some catwalk so you used to it.
Having cynical eyes doesn't mean you're arrogant. Every child have something in common with their parents. So maybe one of your parents have cynical eyes, so you have it too.
Most people aren't really anti-social. They choose to be alone because they hate spending time with stupid people or they're not cozy. Maybe they can't accept their flaws or mistake. They're just too picky with people.
Stop looking for negative in people and start seeing positive. Remember that nobody's perfect. And before you say something, think how you'd feel if someone said it to you.
With love,
- Reiza Haudina -
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